Porn for women: these are the sex movies women like to watch the most

Have a pattern when looking for a quick distraction on porn sites? Scan for redheads or latin women, cumshot movies or group orgies, for example? Everyone has their own ideas about what a sex tape needs to be able to do to get your desire going quickly. It's no different for women than it is for men. Even the ladies know exactly which sex movies make your panties tingle and which ones leave them totally cold. We have asked around, which sex videos provide for high feelings – and the (Attention, Spoiler!) could also make you hot!

Do women really watch porn alone?

You guessed it long ago: Of course women watch porn. The times when they had to be ashamed of their sexual fantasies in front of themselves are long gone. Women are not less curious than men, but they are less open about it (enjoy it and keep quiet) and get excited by different sex scenes than men do. For curiosity's sake alone, women sometimes surf porn websites (and delete their browser history afterwards – even if that's not enough for anonymous surfing). However, they are often put off there at the first click by videos that are tailored to men's fantasies.

What porn are women into?

But what movie does a woman choose when she's in the mood for some visual fun? Okay, it goes without saying that she doesn't watch squirt flicks with titles like "Black Cock Down" or "Clinic of Shame". But films in which the action is intense (just think of SM games in Fifty Shades of Grey) may also like to be. So when does eroticism end for women and where does smut begin? An answer could be one of Pornhub published statistics give.

The trend of search results from female users shows that ladies most often search for videos using the term "lesbians". (For men, the term "milf" leads the hit list). Scissoring" comes in second place, which means lesbian play. Only at number 3 could a male actor come into play: Here stands the "threesome". But even in this category, the ladies can keep to themselves. Rank 4 indicates that some women can like it rough after all. Here is the "big black penis" (so "Black Cock Down" after all)?). But this search query is followed by "lesbian seduces straight woman". You see, women prefer to watch other women having sex.

What distinguishes porn for women from porn for men?

Does this mean that all women who watch lesbian sex movies are secretly homosexual? Nope! Although the statistics do not distinguish between heterosexual and homosexual users, it is unlikely that most of the ladies who romp around on porn websites are lesbians. The tendency to lesbian porn must have something to do with the representation of sex. This is exactly the difference between porn for women and porn for men. Most men care less about the plot, authenticity and characters of porn than women do.

Men are all about a purposeful display that gets down to business quickly, not making light of the act. Women, on the other hand, are into emotional portrayal, the plot should develop. In lesbian porn, tender touches, intense kisses and intimate sexual intercourse play a big role, while in porn that conforms to the common in-out cliché, lovemaking is wild and uncontrolled. However, this does not mean that women are only into flower porn. Hardcore scenes are allowed, but there are no screams of pain and neither women nor men are humiliated. In sex films that women like, both sexes have the same rights – unless she is into S&M.

Where to find stylish porn for women?

The offer of porn for women is constantly growing. Women no longer have to click through the usual video platforms to find films that meet their requirements. Many popular porn movies come from female producers. In erotic online stores are available such production, for example, from the Swedish director Erika Lust. If you google, you'll find platforms that focus on videos for women. Here are some popular examples:

XConfessions
The movies on the site Xconfessions by the aforementioned Swedish porn director Erika Lust tell the story of real people. Around 85 percent of the actors are female. Short trailers are free. If you want to see everything, you pay a (not quite cheap) membership fee. 

Ms Naughty
Under the title "Ms Naughty" hides a lot of material for women. Some of the offers cost money, others are free of charge, for example here.

MakeLoveNotPorn.tv
On this site you will find no slick professional actors, but the woman from next door. You will also look in vain for brutal anal sex or other degrading types of play. In the films on Page from MakeLoveNotPorn.tv real romance, closeness and intimacy is conveyed. Members download individual movies and then receive an invoice, prices vary.

Ladycheeky
Ladycheeky satisfies the fast lust. Countless gifs show intense snapshots of hot sex scenes. The portal has even been awarded porn awards. Free of charge.

Joybear
The British production company Joybear wants to show realistic sex with equal partners in her movies and still does not renounce the good looks of the performers. There are long foreplay sequences and acts. Membership costs about 17 Euro per month.

Hysterical Literature
The Website of Hysterical Literature clearly falls into the category of erotic art – which makes many women really want to have sex. In the short films, the actresses read an excerpt from a book while they are brought to orgasm under the tabletop with finger games or a vibrator. The moaning, eye-rolling and rapid breathing of the readers excites many women more than the direct view of fingering in the intimate area of the protagonists. Free of charge.

Sounds of Pleasure
Women are more likely than men to be stimulated during sex by sensory impressions other than the sense of touch (keyword: head cinema). The site SoundsofPleasures proves this impressively. There is nothing to see here, but a lot to hear. There are sound recordings of people having sex alone or with partners: for example, kissing and sucking sounds, heavy moaning and dirty talk. Women can take the sexy sound with them everywhere: to bed, to the subway, to the office. Free of charge.

How to get her to watch porn together with you

If you watch porn together instead of alone, you may even be able to do something for your relationship. Because sex films not only inspire new sexual adventures, they also reveal to the partner which practices turn on the beloved. Also, shared voyeurism allies – provided you both enjoy it. In order for you to look together with your partner, you have to proceed sensitively. Ask her what she thinks of the performance and explain that she gets to choose the movie based on her preferences. If she agrees, you have already won a lot. Whether or not your sweetheart is shy about admitting her preferences becomes clear at the latest during the selection process: If she chooses a film that corresponds to the classic male stereotype, she most likely just wants to do you a favor. Encourage her to choose a movie that she would also watch alone. 

This is what happens when you watch porn for women together

Maybe you have already looked into a film for women yourself. Let us guess: It's quite likely that you fast-forwarded at some point and eventually swapped the flick for standard porn, annoyed after all. It takes an eternity for the action in porn films about women to become tangible. The films play with subtle touches and hints, accompanied by sophisticated music. There is less screaming and moaning and hardly any dialogue, sensuality comes first. For a porn evening for two this is just right. After all, you're supposed to focus not only on the movie plot, but also on your beloved – and she has time enough to get your arousal going slowly. Attention: When women's videos get going, things really get going – and your lover is quickly on 10 of the arousal scale. You will be surprised how different this shared video adventure is from your porn alleys.

Conclusion: women are into slow sex

No need to find out what movies your partner is secretly watching. Possible competition you will not find there anyway. Most women are into lesbian porn because they are turned on by the soulful lovemaking – keyword: slow sex. You can learn from this preference. You will become a better lover for your partner if you take (more) time during lovemaking, avoid artistic sex positions and ask for her needs. If she won't come out with it, ask her to choose an erotic movie for both of you – if she chooses honestly, it's the best chance to understand what really turns her on.